Optical Foreplay
Begin your journey to rediscover the art of sexual
ecstasy. The best way to do this is to get in touch
with all of your senses on a very intimate and
in-depth level. I want to start with the classical
senses and then work to the more intricate ones.
There can be so much fun in playing with the sense
of sight. The visual is typically the first
stimulator of the mind so, in essence, it is an art
of optical foreplay. The way you stand, the look you
give, how you smile, and even the way you blink all
factor into catching the eye of you mate or
potential suitor.
Flirting is defined as a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual of romantic interest in the other person. Now, as obvious as this may seem men and women are not executing this technique correctly or appropriately. This goes for singles and couples alike. Please keep in mind that just because you are married or in a relationship does not mean you have to stop flirting. You can still flirt with your mate no matter how long you have been together. Ladies, any good flirt can stop a man in his tracks with one glance. It is all in the intensity of your eye contact. Now, I’m not saying stare obsessively at your target that tends to make people uncomfortable. But three things you should always be conscious of when attempting to capture the attention of a potential target are the intense eye, the perfect arch, and the semi smile. There is an art that can be played while sitting at the bar I like to call playing with the peripherals. This part of optical foreplay means that you know how to be noticed without being seen. What I mean by this is that you can use your body language to give off strong “proteans” that show sensuality and interest without being overly obvious. Proteans are subtle; sometimes subconscious, flirtatious signals that are sent went first meeting a person. For example, find yourself a seat. Position your body as if you are sitting at a bar or table. With your hand, cup the side of your neck delicately, mostly using your fingertips. Now, tilt your head slightly bringing your chin toward the palm of your hand and glance over at your intended target hitting him with the intense eye and giving the semi smile. Be sure not to look for long; just enough to where your eyes meet for three seconds and look away. This small gesture implies interest and shows a hint of shyness, but makes it known that you are approachable. This same detail can also be applied in a slightly different manner to display sexual intent, that is, if you are aiming for a stronger, more direct approach. Let’s try it. Again, sit (or stand) with your back straight, and slightly arched. This time use your hand to grace the front of your neck starting below the chin and gently caress the length of your neck tilting your head back giving your target the three second glance, intense eye and semi smile and look away. Brushing the center of your neck portrays more of a sexual interest while the side of your neck is intended to coy and subtle. The small details all factor into optical foreplay. The visual makes the first impression to snag the attention of that man (or woman) that you may have your eye on. Carry yourself with confidence in any social situation, and always walk as if the wind is in your hair.
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